The first and foremost rule for second beginnings is to give yourself a pat on the back, say aloud, "Dude, you tried and well, learned; now it's time to move on (to greener pastures). If it was as easy said as done!. We always seek to attain closure, a fact that hold us, gravitates us towards the those very things that we seek to forget in the first case. An old flame perhaps, an unsolicited dispute, a half read book-yada yada yada!
Without closure, regret slowly creeps into our heart and usurps other emotions we one felt. "Regret is the canker to our soul." Unless we know how to distance ourselves from regret, the ball is always in the courts of well, our turbulent emotions.
But, second beginnings are not that hard. Once you let yourself, well, just simply get going (yes, the closure could be as easy as that), the course runs itself out and through. Life is the best tribunal for offering you another chance; to help move on, to better things or to just, simply, gather yourself together. Just go with the flow. Don't resist. Think, life is too beautiful to be stuck in the rind. Well, unless, you are often struck with a bout of the black gloom, as is my case often, you are quite good to go! So, cheerio!
Without closure, regret slowly creeps into our heart and usurps other emotions we one felt. "Regret is the canker to our soul." Unless we know how to distance ourselves from regret, the ball is always in the courts of well, our turbulent emotions.
But, second beginnings are not that hard. Once you let yourself, well, just simply get going (yes, the closure could be as easy as that), the course runs itself out and through. Life is the best tribunal for offering you another chance; to help move on, to better things or to just, simply, gather yourself together. Just go with the flow. Don't resist. Think, life is too beautiful to be stuck in the rind. Well, unless, you are often struck with a bout of the black gloom, as is my case often, you are quite good to go! So, cheerio!